Every year we set aside time between Christmas and New Year’s to do what we call our relationship review. It’s a structured set of questions which we discuss and journal. Then we set both personal and relationship goals for the coming year and beyond. We’ve been doing this process since before we were married. If you would find it useful you’re welcome to download a copy and customize it to suit your needs. It’s something we really look forward to doing together. We recommend setting aside a large chunk of uninterrupted time, ideally away from phones, computers, etc. It takes us an entire day to go through it. This may, in part be why we’ve been happy together for 25+ years!